We’ll celebrate America’s 250th anniversary July 4, 2026, at least many of us will. Patriotism in this year of the Semiquincentennial is waffling.
Hi, I’m Rex Rogers and this is episode #268 of Discerning What Is Best, a podcast applying unchanging biblical principles in a rapidly changing world, and a Christian worldview to current issues and everyday life.
The 250th birthday of the founding of the United States of America is July 4, 2026. It’s called the somewhat less than elegant term, “Semiquincentennial.”
I was around for the nation’s 200th birthday, the Bicentennial in 1976. Back then, patriotism was everywhere apparent, people prepared floats and marched in parades, special programs on television presented the nation’s past, and in general the public seemed excited about the event. In January 1976, we were blessed with our first child, a baby girl, or as everyone said back then, a “Bicentennial baby.”
Surveys indicated Americans were proud of their country in the high 80 or even 90+ percentiles. It was an exciting time and we enjoyed it thoroughly.
For the Semiquincentennial, it’s different. It’s not that no one is patriotic or that that there are no special events or displays of patriotism, but by comparison it is muted, and of course, some are openly non-patriotic. Surveys are indicating about 49% of the American public are proud of their country, a drop from fifty years ago of about forty percent. 83% of Republicans say they are proud to be American – 43% of independents – 31% of Democrats. 66% of those 65 and older while only 34% of adults aged 18 to 29 say they are proud to be American.
Patriotism has become a victim of contemporary politicization or polarization. It is increasingly difficult to separate love or respect for country, heritage, ideals from politics or personalities.
Even Christians are polarized. I know Christians who are:
· not patriotic because they don’t like Donald Trump. –But hey, don’t political leaders come and go?
· not patriotic because they are disillusioned by events and issues. –True, since COVID things have not been a bowl of cherries in America, but I’m not at all sure these are the worst of times. We live in a fallen world, so things are not the paradise of the Garde of Eden, but still, there is much about America that is good and positive, like our basic freedoms for one.
And I know Christians who are:
· patriotic to the point of wrapping the Bible in the flag. – Frankly, they sometimes get themselves twisted up with unwise theologies like Christian nationalism, and some of these folks seem to worship the nation as much as the Lord.
· patriotic to the point they shout, “My country right or wrong but right or wrong my country.” – This triumphalist, often arrogant, view, is not biblical to say the least. No country, no leader, no political party, nor you and I are beyond the need of the continual critique of a Christian worldview.
So, what I am saying is that patriotism is a choice, and you can think yourself into a cul-de-sac of unhappiness and a nihilistic view of life in America that lacks perspective and is dangerous to yours and the well-being of others.
Years ago, I read a book by the Dutch theologian, H. M. Kuitert, entitled Everything Is Politics, But Politics Is Not Everything. I’ve never forgotten that title. His point was that while virtually all activities and relationships in life involve politics with a little “p,” that is, politics as the art of the possible – negotiation, trade-offs, decision-making. Sure, everything is politics in that sense.
But his bold point and caveat was, politics—meaning big “P” politics in Washington, DC or state capitols, is not the end-all, be-all of life. Partisan politics is not salvific, that is, political solutions cannot meet the spiritual needs of your heart. Politics, big “P” and political personalities in many cases cannot even address, let alone resolve, the existential questions in your life. Politics, while important and not evil as such, cannot fulfill your greatest needs and bring you peace and well-being. Politics is not as important as family, church, vocation and community.
So, if this is the case, politics is not everything, then perhaps we are better served to engage it with perspective, approach government and deploy politics is a manner that seeks to honor our neighbors and the Lord.
The American political system is one based upon a government of laws, that is a constitutional republic including shared powers, separation of powers, and checks and balances, all protective devices conceived by the Founding Fathers to protect us from our own human passions.
From its inception in the Declaration of Independence, the American political vision acknowledge that “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.--That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed.” The Founders sought to create a government that would protect and perpetuate freedom, so they conceived a system they called “ordered liberty,” an oxymoron seemingly, but liberty by law.
No nation in the history of the world had ever been formed in this manner, which is why America has been called “The First New Nation.” No nation in the history of the world had ever been formed in a manner that based its hopes for existence on the consent of the governed and self-rule, which is why the Founders spoke so often about virtue—the moral character of the citizenry required to support a free society. The Founders honestly did not know if what they created would last, which is why even George Washington referred to the new nation as “The Great Experiment.”
America’s ideals and the system of government of America’s founding resulted in freedom and flourishing like no other civilization in history. No nation or people have ever been as blessed as the citizens of the United States. This is why scholars then and now referred to something they called “American exceptionalism,” not that American citizens were somehow better than others in the world, not that America was somehow chosen of God over others in the world, not that America is more beautiful than any other nation, No, it is that America was launched on a foundation of exceptional ideals—the rights to life, liberty, and equality all given not by government but by God.
Patriotism at the Semiquincentennial is waffling in America, but any serious review of the nation’s heritage and its current reality must result in amazement and gratitude.
In particular, Christians should exercise a biblically sound patriotism that:
· Respects legitimate governing authorities.
· Avoids panic when culture declines.
· Avoids triumphalism when culture prospers.
· Anchors hope in God’s eternal kingdom.
· Begins with gratitude – for national blessings = liberty, order, security.
· Engages civic life thoughtfully.
Yes, as believers we belong first to Jesus Christ, but we can and should love our country where God has placed us. It is our home. We do not worship the nation, but we pray for its leaders of all political persuasions, and we work for justice and peace. In the words of Scripture, we “Honor everyone. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the emperor” (1 Pet. 2:17; Rom. 13:1).
In the 20th Century, during the lifetime of many listening, America with its Allies defeated Fascism in WWII—Mussolini and Hitler, the Nazis. And during the 20th Century American helped to stymie Communism in Cold War: President Reagan’s “Mr. Gorbachev, tear down this wall.” And the Berlin wall came down in 1989, just months before the dissolution of the Union of Soviet Socialists Republics.
Communism as a political philosophy still exists and is at deployed today in Russia, North Korea, China, to name a few. But it is different from what the Soviets pushed on the world.
Now in 21st century, America must stand again for freedom. We must defeat Leftism and Islamism, both of which have serious footholds in America and are now working together in what’s called the “Red/Green” Alliance. The warped and evil ideas and beliefs propagated by these “Isms” are incompatible with the freedom that is our birthright from 1776. They must be stopped.
I do not believe the USA is on the “wrong side of history” and somehow irredeemable, so I reject the nihilism of the contemporary Left. In America, we’ve done what is right in our own eyes, we’ve built our Towers of Babel and crafted our own versions of the Golden Calf. We’ve ignored or insulted America’s exceptional ideals. We’ve turned from truth and embraced travesty. We’ve traded virtue for license.
But we still are given the opportunity to work toward “a more perfect union,” to realize the poetry and promise of America’s moral vision, the “last best hope on earth.”
Well, we’ll see you again soon. This podcast is about Discerning What Is Best.
If you find this thought-provoking and helpful, follow us on your favorite podcast platform. For more Christian commentary, see my website, r-e-x-m as in Martin, that’s rexmrogers.com, or check my YouTube channel @DrRexRogers.
And remember, it is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm.
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Virtue is a word almost forgotten today, but the Founding Fathers considered the existence of virtue essential to liberty. What are we missing, or maybe risking?
Hi, I’m Rex Rogers and this is episode #267 of Discerning What Is Best, a podcast applying unchanging biblical principles in a rapidly changing world, and a Christian worldview to current issues and everyday life.
I’m not sure I can remember the last time I heard a public leader or even a preacher use the word “virtue.” Culturally, it’s a near-forgotten or antiquated concept. But America’s Founding Fathers used the word a lot and linked virtue with liberty.
Consider these quotes:
George Washington: “Human rights can only be assured among a virtuous people.”
Benjamin Franklin: “Only a virtuous people are capable of freedom. As nations become corrupt and vicious, they have more need of masters.”
Samuel Adams: “Neither the wisest constitution nor the wisest laws will secure the liberty and happiness of a people whose manners are universally corrupt. He therefore is the truest friend of the liberty of his country who tries most to promote its virtue.”
John Adams: “Public virtue cannot exist in a Nation without private Virtue, and public Virtue is the only Foundation of Republics.”
What the Founding Fathers meant when they said “virtue” is moral character, self-restraint, honesty, courage, boldness, moderation, independence, public spirit, prudence, reasonableness, civic knowledge, and concern for the common good. In other words, the Founding Fathers meant public or civic virtue without which they did not believe a free society could survive.
Let’s pause for a moment and note that later in the 19th Century and continuing into this day, the word “virtue” took on a narrower focus. It was most often used to refer to women or girls in terms of their chastity or modesty. Phrases like “she was a virtuous woman.” There is nothing wrong with this use of the terms “virtue.” It’s just a more specific application than the Founding Fathers and political theorists of that era like John Locke intended. Again, by virtue, they meant upstanding, self-governed behavior and morality.
America’s Founding Fathers were attempting to establish a government like none that had been tried before. This is why the USA is sometimes called “The First New Nation,” a nation formed by the consent of the governed, of, by, and for the people, and aimed at preserving individual liberty.
Governments of empires and nations prior to America’s founding had functioned with emperors, divine right of kings, and strongman rulers who could enforce desired behavior. The Founding Fathers were attempting to establish a government with no king, no ruler, nothing to rule the people but God and the constitutional republic they established. They did not know if such a government could last. This is why many of them, including George Washington, referred to the new government as “the Great Experiment.”
It’s why, in September 1787, when Benjamin Franklin was leaving Independence Hall in Philadelphia, according to a widely repeated account, a woman named Elizabeth Willing Powel asked him: "Well, Doctor, what have we got, a republic or a monarchy?" Franklin famously replied: "A republic, if you can keep it." “If you can keep it.” He was signaling once again what a “Great Experiment” this new nation was.
The Founding Fathers did not set up a democracy, as we so often hear today, but a constitutional republic, one featuring separation of powers and checks and balances. They did this with hope but not naivete about human nature.
It’s why James Madison wrote, “If men were angels, no government would be necessary. If angels were to govern men, neither external nor internal controls on government would be necessary. In framing a government which is to be administered by men over men, the great difficulty lies in this: You must first enable the government to control the governed; and in the next place, oblige it to control itself.”
So, the Founding Fathers recognized that the newly minted American citizens were not angels but were people subject to the temptations and foibles of human nature, in other words, sin and maybe even evil. Yet they did not want to establish some tyranny to govern citizens. They wanted citizens to choose to pursue virtue, i.e. self-restraint and moral character, and govern themselves, therefore, enjoying and perpetuating liberty.
This generation of not perfect but amazingly talented people recognized that freedom requires moral self-governance, liberty without virtue becomes license, that character is the foundation of constitutional order, and that national flourishing is tied to moral and spiritual integrity. They understood that cultural decay cannot be solved merely by elections, that liberty cannot be maintained by wealth or weapons, only by character, what they called virtue.
In 1788, John Adams said, “We have no government armed with power capable of contending with human passions unbridled by morality and religion. Avarice, ambition, revenge, or gallantry, would break the strongest cords of our Constitution, as a whale goes through a net. Our Constitution was made only for a moral and religious people. It is wholly inadequate to the government of any other.” Adams was not saying that only Christians or only religious believers could be citizens. Rather, he was expressing a common Founding-era belief that the American constitutional system assumed a people capable of governing themselves. Because the federal government was limited and dispersed by checks and balances, Adams believed it depended upon citizens possessing enough moral character and self-restraint that force and coercion would not have to do all the work. For Adams, unchecked passions—greed, lust for power, vengeance, and other desires—could overwhelm any constitutional structure. This reflected the broader Founding-era idea that liberty required both institutions and virtue.
The old King James Version of the Bible, published in 1611 and available to the Founding Fathers, used the term “virtue” more often than contemporary versions today. In 2 Peter 1:5-7, the Apostle says, “For this very reason, make every effort to supplement your faith with virtue, and virtue with knowledge, and knowledge with self-control, and self-control with steadfastness, and steadfastness with godliness, and godliness with brotherly affection, and brotherly affection with love.” Virtue – moral and upstanding life and behavior, exemplary character, this is the kind of citizen the Founding Fathers believed needed to be cultivated to support, preserve, and extend a free society.
“Our Founders (believed) personal self-control is freedom. Government control is tyranny. This is why the Left hates America’s Judeo-Christian heritage. Both religions teach self-control, which means freedom. The Left doesn't want that because the Left wants government totalitarianism. They want promiscuity, they want licentiousness. They want as much sin in society as possible, as much self-indulgence as imaginable, because self-control means freedom. By its very definition, self-control is freedom; we freely choose to do the right things, and thus, don’t need government force to compel us to do them. But the Left is encouraging, glorifying self-absorption in America, decadents who do not control themselves, thus will need government to step in and do it. Growing government ultimately means tyranny.”
“Civilization obviously cannot exist unless there is some restraint on evil. It either comes from within a person—self-control, freely choosing to do the right thing—or it will have to come “from without”—government. Or civilization ceases. And, as government grows, liberty retreats.”
Virtue, self-control equals freedom. But contemporary American society seems to be pursuing the opposite—licentiousness, perversity, “the days of Noah.” But we are at risk. Ben Franklin said, “Man will ultimately be governed by God or by tyrants.” It’s up to us to choose.
The USA is blessed with exceptional founding ideals. Question now is, in our 250th year, will we not just celebrate but embrace these ideals anew—do what is necessary to right our tilting ship—and perpetuate our free society for our children and children’s children? Will we rediscover and pursue virtue? I hope so.
Our progeny’s freedom depends on it.
Well, we’ll see you again soon. This podcast is about Discerning What Is Best.
If you find this thought-provoking and helpful, follow us on your favorite podcast platform. For more Christian commentary, see my website, r-e-x-m as in Martin, that’s rexmrogers.com, or check my YouTube channel @DrRexRogers.
And remember, it is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm.
© Rex M. Rogers – All Rights Reserved, 2026
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Fathers are a biological essential for the fact of our lives, but well beyond this, in a troubled and chaotic world good fathers are needed more than ever.
Hi, I’m Rex Rogers and this is episode #266 of Discerning What Is Best, a podcast applying unchanging biblical principles in a rapidly changing world, and a Christian worldview to current issues and everyday life.
Fathers are more important than ever in modern American society because the culture is increasingly marked by social instability, moral disagreement, and declining religious influence. The role of a committed father remains a powerful source of guidance, stability, and character formation for children and families.
“There is a crisis in America. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, 19.7 million children in America—more than one in four—live without their biological dad in the home. Consequently, there is a “father factor” in nearly all of the societal issues facing America today. We must realize there is a father absence crisis in America and begin to raise more involved, responsible, and committed fathers.”
“Research shows when a child grows up in a father-absent home, he or she is…
1) Four Times More Likely to Live in Poverty
2) More Likely to Suffer Emotional and Behavioral Problems
3) Two Times Greater Risk of Infant Mortality
4) More Likely to go to Prison
One in five prison inmates had a father in prison.
5) More Likely to Commit Crime
Family structure significantly predicts delinquency.
6) Seven Times More Likely to Become Pregnant as a Teen
Teens without fathers are twice as likely to be involved in early sexual activity and seven times more likely to get pregnant as an adolescent.
7) More Likely to Face Abuse and Neglect
Compared to children living with married biological parents, those whose single parent had a live-in partner had more than 8 times the rate of maltreatment overall, over 10 times the rate of abuse and more than 6 times the rate of neglect.
8) More Likely to Abuse Drugs and Alcohol
9) Two Times More Likely to Suffer Obesity
10) Two Times More Likely to Drop Out of High School
Students living in father-absent homes are twice as likely to repeat a grade in school.
Father involvement in schools is associated with the higher likelihood of their children getting mostly A's.”
· “85% of youths in prison come from fatherless homes.
· 71% of high school dropouts come from fatherless homes.
· 90% of all homeless and runaway children come from fatherless homes.
· 60% of youth suicides come from fatherless homes.”
“Perhaps a more universal problem is father irrelevance. Too many fathers in our society are not necessarily absent from their homes, but they are certainly uninvolved in the lives of their children. These men are often disconnected emotionally, socially, and certainly spiritually.”
One of the defining features of contemporary life is the sheer volume of competing messages that children encounter every day. Through social media, entertainment, and the internet, young people are exposed to countless viewpoints—many of them morally degenerate—about identity, values, success, and relationships. In such an environment, a father can serve as a steady and trustworthy influence. Rather than allowing a child to be shaped primarily by online trends, vacuous celebrities, or peer pressure, an engaged father helps provide a consistent framework for making decisions and evaluating right from wrong.
Moral relativism has also become increasingly common in American culture. Moral relativism is the idea that moral truths are largely subjective and dependent on individual preferences or circumstances. Many parents are concerned about how to raise children in this relativistic environment, children who then will mature with strong convictions, integrity, and a sense of responsibility. Fathers play a critical role in this process. Through their actions, discipline, and example, fathers can teach virtues such as honesty, courage, self-control, respect, and accountability. Children often learn these values less from lectures and more from observing how their fathers live.
The decline of religious participation has further increased the importance of fathers. For generations, religious institutions helped transmit moral teachings, provide community support, and reinforce family values. For religious families, fathers help pass down faith and spiritual traditions. For nonreligious families, fathers still serve a vital role in helping children develop ethical principles, purpose, and a sense of belonging.
Upstanding fathers are also important because society benefits when families are strong. Research has frequently linked a strong nuclear family unit and a positive father involvement with better outcomes for children in areas such as education, emotional well-being, and social development. A loving and responsible father, one who has “been there, done that,” can help children build confidence, resilience, and healthy relationships.
Importantly, the significance of fathers does not diminish the importance of mothers. Both parents contribute unique strengths to family life. Nevertheless, fathers bring distinctive perspectives, experiences, and forms of support that can have a lasting impact on a child’s development.
“The breakdown of morality in our society is contributing to this disturbing trend. Traditional values that once served as guiding principles seem to be waning, leaving a moral vacuum in which right and wrong are increasingly ambiguous.
The erosion of moral foundations means that young people are less equipped to distinguish between ethical choices and destructive actions.”
In a society buffeted by growing chaos, moral uncertainty, and weakening traditional institutions, the presence of a devoted father with an admirable moral compass provides stability and direction. By modeling responsibility, teaching values, setting right boundaries and accountability, while offering unwavering support, fathers help prepare the next generation to navigate a complex world with wisdom, confidence, and character.
As we’ve noted, “fathers are crucial to the healthy development of children, particularly sons. If there is one great wrong feminism must be held to account for, it is the devaluation of men’s role in the family. In their quest for self-actualization, the second-wave feminists scorned men and fathers, insisting that women were fine on their own. To be sure, men should be held to high standards. Men who fail to honor and respect women deserve obloquy. But by defaming men as a class and dismissing the importance of fathers in children’s lives, feminists committed a grave error. Social science research confirms what ancient wisdom teaches – from roughhousing with sons to offering their daughters unconditional admiration, fathers play a crucial role in children’s lives. Girls who grow up without dads have lower self-esteem, more eating disorders, and lower grades, among other things, than girls who have fathers in their lives. Boys who grow up without fathers do even worse. They are less likely to finish high school, attend college, or be employed as adults than even their sisters who also grew up without fathers.”
“From education to personal health to career success, children who lack a father find themselves at a disadvantage to their peers raised in a two-parent household.”
My father has been in heaven now for eight years. Doesn’t seem possible it’s been that long. He was a hard-working man, a farm kid if you will who could fix anything, and he was a Christian believer who consistently sought to live his life according to the teachings of Scripture. He loved Mom, who misses him to this day, and he loved my sister and me. Beyond this, he taught me most of what I needed to know to begin life as a man, not as a spoiled or immature kid. What he taught me was love for the Lord and Christian commitment, work ethic, and respect for others.
My wife, too, was blessed with a father like this, but not everyone is. If you had a bad father or a deadbeat dad or a father whose choices and behaviors you are ashamed of, then choose by the grace of God to not be him. Fathers are influential but we are still individually blessed with free will and an ability to think and choose right from wrong. It’s the passed baton. It’s our turn now.
Fatherhood and good fathers should be celebrated. This follows Christian teaching, honors right behavior, creates role models for children, and benefits and blesses a free society. Praise God the Father for his love. Thank the Lord for good fathers here on earth.
Well, we’ll see you again soon. This podcast is about Discerning What Is Best.
If you find this thought-provoking and helpful, follow us on your favorite podcast platform. For more Christian commentary, see my website, r-e-x-m as in Martin, that’s rexmrogers.com, or check my YouTube channel @DrRexRogers.
And remember, it is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm.
© Rex M. Rogers – All Rights Reserved, 2026
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Everyone has a family, right? Well, sadly, not always, but a family is one of the most important and fundamental associations of our lives.
Hi, I’m Rex Rogers and this is episode #265 of Discerning What Is Best, a podcast applying unchanging biblical principles in a rapidly changing world, and a Christian worldview to current issues and everyday life.
The nuclear family—what some Christian scholars prefer to call the “natural family,” is typically defined as two parents and their children living in the same household. This family structure has long been regarded as a foundational social institution in societies worldwide. Indeed, many sociologists and historians have referred to the traditional family structure as the basic building block of society.
Externally, families, then clans, then tribes made sense for protection. There is strength in numbers and in a fallen world, the families even at the dawn of time quickly learned there was value in sticking together.
Historically, the nuclear family also served as a primary unit for child-rearing, economic cooperation, socialization, and the transmission of cultural values. While family structures have varied across cultures and time periods, the nuclear family has played a particularly influential role in the development of modern societies and nation states, including the United States.
One reason the nuclear family has been considered an important building block of healthy societies is its role in providing stability and continuity across generations. Families are often the first environment in which children learn language, social norms, moral values, and interpersonal skills. Parents typically serve as a child's earliest teachers and caregivers, helping to shape emotional development and educational outcomes. Research has frequently found that children, on average, benefit from stable and supportive family environments.
Historically, the nuclear family also functioned as an economic partnership. In agricultural and industrial societies alike, family members often pooled resources, shared responsibilities, and provided mutual support during times of hardship. Strong family networks could reduce dependence on external institutions while fostering social cohesion and community engagement. The family unit also contributed to cultural continuity by passing traditions, beliefs, and identities from one generation to the next.
Over the past fifty years in the United States, however, the status of the nuclear family has undergone significant change.
In my lifetime, there has been a “remarkable ‘flight’ from the family. It has been not only from the ‘traditional’ family, the relatively patriarchal form made up of male breadwinner and female housewife, but also from the nuclear family itself—one focused on childrearing and constituted by a legal, lifelong, sexually exclusive, heterosexual, monogamous marriage. The rejection of the traditional family now has wide popular support, but we are perhaps unwittingly in the process of throwing out the baby with the bath water.”
“The recent transformation has been especially dramatic because just prior to the period in question the nuclear family had reached its apogee in America. In the 1950s-fueled in part by falling maternal and child mortality rates, greater longevity, and a high marriage rate-a higher proportion of children than ever before grew up in stable, two-parent families. Similarly, in this period, the highest-ever proportion of women married, bore children, and lived jointly with their husbands until at least age 50.”
“In the 1960s, however, four major social trends emerged to prompt a widespread decline of the nuclear family: rapid fertility decline; the sexual revolution; the movement of mothers into the labor force; and the divorce revolution…The unavoidable conclusion from recent family trends is that American society has been moving in an ominous direction—toward the devaluation of children.”
“Statistically speaking, (the traditional nuclear family) is no longer the norm. In fact, 80% of households have a non-traditional family structure in the United States. Family structures that may be considered non-traditional or alternative include but are not limited to single-parent families (a single parent raises a child alone), cohabitation (an unmarried couple shares a household), same-sex families (two individuals of the same sex raise a family); grandparenting (grandparents raising grandchildren) and polygamy (marriage between at least three people).”
Beginning in the 1960s and accelerating through the 1970s and beyond, a variety of social, economic, and cultural forces—which is to say choices—altered family formation patterns. Rising divorce rates, increased participation of women in the workforce, delayed marriage, declining fertility rates, and changing social attitudes toward relationships all contributed to a diversification of family structures.
“The nuclear family crumbled piece by piece. In 1970, more than two-thirds of American adults between 25 and 49 lived with a spouse and at least one kid. By 2021, only 37% of adults fit the bill, Pew Research found. Economic pressures have been particularly significant. Housing costs, wage stagnation for many workers, student debt, and the increasing cost of raising children have made family formation more difficult for many Americans. Young adults now often marry later than previous generations, and some choose not to marry at all. At the same time, greater geographic mobility and changing work patterns have weakened some forms of extended family support.”
The decline of the traditional nuclear family as the dominant household model has been a subject of considerable debate.
Some scholars and commentators argue that reductions in marriage rates and increases in single-parent households have contributed to social challenges, including economic inequality and reduced social stability. Today, the nuclear family remains an important and influential institution in the United States, but it is no longer the sole or overwhelmingly dominant family form. Its cultural significance persists, yet it exists alongside a wider range of household structures than in previous generations. The past fifty years have therefore been characterized not simply by the disappearance of the nuclear family, but by its adaptation within a society experiencing profound economic, demographic, and cultural change.
Yet, “a nuclear family headed by two loving married parents remains the most stable and safest environment for raising children. There are, of course, still reasons for legitimate concern about the state of the American family. Marriage today is less likely to anchor family life in many poor and working-class communities. While a majority of college-educated men and women between 18 and 55 are married, that’s no longer true for the poor (only 26 percent are married) and the working class (39 percent). What’s more, children from these families are markedly less likely to live under the same roof as their biological parents than their peers from better-off backgrounds are.”
“The positive effects of stable marriage and stable nuclear families also spill over. Neighborhoods, towns, and cities are more likely to flourish when they are sustained by lots of married households. The work of the Harvard sociologist Robert Sampson tells us that neighborhoods with many two-parent families are much safer. In his own words: ‘Family structure is one of the strongest, if not the strongest, predictor[s] of variations in urban violence across cities in the United States’...Communities are stronger and safer when they include lots of committed married couples.”
But, in spite of the fact much of the American intelligentsia rejected the nuclear family, or at least said they were open to other forms of arrangements, still, the traditional Dad, Mom, and children model has proven again and again its staying power, its positive contributions to emotional and other forms of growth, and its capacity to provide a safe environment in which children can learn, make mistakes, and grow, learn moral parameters, form their personalities, and enjoy a security in which they can discover their own interests and talents, in which they know for certain they are loved, valued, and that they matter – thus avoiding rampant teenage traumas in anxieties and personal instability.
Families matter, so we should do our part to reinforce our own families and to enjoy and contribute to the family of God represented by our local church.
God said, “Let us not grow weary of doing good” (Gal. 6:9). This starts with the family.
Well, we’ll see you again soon. This podcast is about Discerning What Is Best.
If you find this thought-provoking and helpful, follow us on your favorite podcast platform. For more Christian commentary, see my website, r-e-x-m as in Martin, that’s rexmrogers.com, or check my YouTube channel @DrRexRogers.
And remember, it is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm.
© Rex M. Rogers – All Rights Reserved, 2026
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Sports wagering seems to be thriving, at least on the surface, and insofar as this is true, it means gambling operations owners are laughing all the way to the bank while the great bulk of players go home with empty pockets.
Hi, I’m Rex Rogers and this is episode #264 of Discerning What Is Best, a podcast applying unchanging biblical principles in a rapidly changing world, and a Christian worldview to current issues and everyday life.
Over the past ten years, American sports gambling has changed from a largely illegal and underground activity into a major commercial industry integrated into professional sports, media, and popular culture. A turning point came in 2018 when the Supreme Court of the United States struck down the Professional and Amateur Sports Protection Act (PASPA), allowing individual states to legalize sports betting. Since then, dozens of states have approved online and in-person sports wagering, creating a market worth billions of dollars annually.
For Super Bowl LX, February 2026, analysts estimated about $2.0 billion in legal wagers. For the 2026 NCAA men’s and women’s basketball “March Madness,” industry estimates projected about $3.1 billion legally wagered.
Technology has driven much of this growth. Smartphone apps allow users to place bets instantly from home or while watching games live. Companies such as DraftKings, FanDuel, BetMGM, and several more, originally known for fantasy sports contests, became dominant sports betting platforms. Advertising for gambling now appears constantly during sports broadcasts, podcasts, and social media. Betting odds are discussed alongside game analysis, and many leagues that once opposed gambling now partner with sportsbooks for sponsorships and data-sharing agreements.
One innovation, prop bets, or proposition bets, sometimes called side bets, now allow gamblers to wager on highly specific outcomes such as how many points a player will score, whether the next play will be a pass, or even the result of a coin toss. Because these bets can be offered continuously throughout games, they encourage more frequent participation and repeated wagering. So-called “micro betting also allows for a greater range of betting options, as it provides a more granular level of detail for bettors to place wagers on. This increased level of detail can also result in higher odds and greater potential winnings for bettors. Additionally, micro betting is often faster paced and more immediate, as results can be determined in real-time during the course of a game or match.”
Sportsbooks profit significantly from prop bets or microbets because they generate high betting volume and often carry larger profit margins than traditional bets on game winners or point spreads. Needless to say, the popularity of live betting and microbets has therefore become a major source of industry revenue growth.
Prediction markets are another innovation that have developed alongside this trend. Prediction markets are platforms where people increasingly engage in speculative wagering that resembles modern prop betting culture, helping drive gambling revenues higher for sportsbooks and betting companies. Unlike traditional sportsbooks, prediction markets often resemble financial exchanges where prices fluctuate based on collective expectations. Advocates argue these markets can aggregate information efficiently and provide insight into public opinion and probabilities.
The largest prediction markets are Polymarket, Kalshi, and Betfair. Betfair became especially influential because it popularized the “betting exchange” model in which users effectively trade positions with one another instead of betting against a bookmaker.
Prediction markets occupy a controversial and somewhat uncertain legal space in the United States. Some are regulated as financial products rather than gambling operations. Critics argue that, in practice, many prediction markets function similarly to sports betting and therefore raise the same ethical and social concerns.
Prediction market platforms are accessible across state lines, meaning users in states that have explicitly rejected legalized sports betting can still participate, which undermines the authority of states to set their own laws and standards. Federal officials are pushing to treat prediction markets as gambling.
Platforms like Kalshi argue they are not traditional bookmakers, but rather financial exchanges regulated by the Commodity Futures Trading Commission. By framing wagers as financial "event contracts," these platforms operate in many U.S. states with restrictive sports betting laws. Meanwhile, many international jurisdictions classify them as gambling. For example, Spain temporarily blocked both Polymarket and Kalshi for operating without local gambling licenses.
The rapid expansion of sports gambling has generated significant debate. One major concern is gambling addiction, especially among young men and college-age audiences heavily exposed to betting advertisements. Easy access through mobile phones allows constant wagering, including live “microbets” on individual plays during games, which may encourage impulsive behavior. Financial losses and debt problems have become increasingly common for some gamblers.
Another concern is the integrity of sports competition. Heavy gambling activity raises fears about match-fixing, insider information, and pressure on athletes or referees. College athletics are considered particularly vulnerable because many student athletes are unpaid and more susceptible to outside influence or harassment from angry bettors.
Critics also worry about the cultural normalization of gambling. Sports once centered primarily on athletic competition and fandom, but gambling now shapes how many viewers experience games. Supporters argue legalized betting provides consumer protections and tax revenue, yet opponents caution that the long-term social costs may outweigh the economic benefits.
At the same time, critics raise moral objections to gambling itself. I am one of these critics. Historically, Christians have always condemned gambling because it promotes greed, exploits vulnerable individuals, and encourages people to seek wealth through chance rather than productive work. The industry profits from addiction and financial desperation, especially among lower-income consumers.
Constant gambling opportunities can weaken community values by normalizing risky behavior and turning sports into vehicles primarily for financial speculation rather than entertainment or athletic achievement.
Several illegal or improper sports betting scandals have made major news in the past decade, especially since legalized sports wagering expanded after 2018.
One of the biggest recent scandals involved Ippei Mizuhara, the former interpreter for Shohei Ohtani. Federal investigators alleged Mizuhara stole more than $16 million from Ohtani to pay debts owed to an illegal California bookmaker. Prosecutors said he placed roughly 19,000 bets and lost more than $40 million over several years. The MLB ultimately cleared Ohtani of wrongdoing, while Mizuhara pleaded guilty to bank and tax fraud.
Another major case involved Jontay Porter, a former player for the Toronto Raptors. In 2024 the NBA banned Porter for life after investigators found he shared confidential information with bettors, wagered on NBA games, and allegedly manipulated his participation in games tied to prop bets. The scandal became one of the first major match-manipulation cases since widespread legalization of online sports betting in the United States.
Professional leagues have also disciplined players for violating gambling rules even when no game-fixing was proven. And professional leagues must own their part of the surge in sports betting, for the leagues not only invested directly in sportsbooks but promote gambling – endlessly on game broadcasts.
The 2026 FIFA World Cup will be the biggest World Cup ever: total matches: 104 games, 11 U.S. host cities, 48 national teams. The tournament is also hosted by Canada and Mexico, bringing the total number of host cities across all three countries to 16.
Authorities, sportsbooks, FIFA, and integrity-monitoring groups are already preparing for several sports betting risks. FIFA has expanded its anti-corruption and integrity operations, including, integrity officers assigned to teams and officials, mandatory education for players, referees, and staff, reporting hotlines for suspicious activity, and monitoring of betting markets worldwide.
These scandals have intensified concerns about legalized sports gambling.
Again, prop bets or microbets have been the center of concern. These bets are easier to manipulate than the outcome of a game, i.e., cheating.
The history of betting is a story that never ends well. Gambling is a time bomb in a pretty package, a snake in the grass that sooner or later bites, sometimes leaving lifelong wounds.
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The older we get the more we think about yesterday than tomorrow, and with this comes a perspective on social change—a lot of it in my lifetime.
Hi, I’m Rex Rogers and this is episode #263 of Discerning What Is Best, a podcast applying unchanging biblical principles in a rapidly changing world, and a Christian worldview to current issues and everyday life.
At the risk of sounding like an old guy, I’d say much has changed in my lifetime. But then again, now that I’m into my three-score-and-ten-decade, well, I am an old guy. Again, like an old codger, I’d say it’s sometimes challenging to get younger people, including our own kids, to understand just how much has changed, and that, in my view at least, a lot of the change has been negative in its impact. In other words, in many important ways we’re not better off than we used to be.
Think with me for a few moments about some of these changes.
Since the 1960s—when I was in grade school through high school—religious and moral philosophy in America have undergone major transformation. When I was a youth entering my teens, American society was still strongly influenced by the broadly shared Judeo-Christian values upon which the country was founded. I’ve often said I was blessed, and I do mean this, with a near idyllic smalltown Norman Rockwell childhood.
Back then, the United States was shaped by strong social norms, widespread church attendance, stable family structures, and a shared national identity influenced by the post–World War II era. Most Americans consumed the same television programs, read local newspapers, and trusted institutions such as government, schools, and churches at relatively high levels.
As I noted, church attendance was high, but more importantly, biblical morality shaped public expectations, if not everyone’s behavior, and many Americans viewed marriage, sexuality, patriotism, and family life through a traditional religious framework.
Then the 1960s and 1970s brought enormous social upheaval. The Civil Rights Movement challenged segregation and expanded legal equality for African Americans. I watched this and I think it was a good thing, and if you’ve never watched the video of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr’s “I Have a Dream” speech on the Lincoln Memorial steps, Aug. 28, 1963, by all means do so. It is not only loaded with an admirable expression of right values, but it is one of the finest pieces of American oratory we’ve ever experienced.
The feminist movement reshaped expectations for women in education, work, and family life. Antiwar protests during the Vietnam era weakened trust in political leaders, while the sexual revolution loosened traditional attitudes toward marriage, sexuality, and personal behavior. Immigration reforms in 1965 also changed the demographic makeup of the country, increasing ethnic and cultural diversity over the following decades.
Moral philosophy increasingly emphasized tolerance, self-expression, autonomy, and inclusivity rather than adherence to fixed moral codes. Still—unlike the secularism that beset Europe—in the US religious faith continued to play a major role in American life, particularly in politics, charitable work, and cultural debates.
And by the time I became an undergrad, 1970-1974, Supreme Court decisions on school prayer, abortion, and other cultural issues intensified debate over the role of religion in public life. Moral authority increasingly shifted from institutions such as churches and families toward the individual conscience and personal experience, or feelings.
Over time, America also became more religiously diverse, secularism grew rapidly, especially among younger generations. And many Americans moved away from organized religion while still describing themselves as “spiritual.”
By the 1980s and 1990s, consumerism and entertainment culture became increasingly dominant. Cable television expanded media choices, while globalization connected Americans more closely to international markets and ideas. Technology began reshaping everyday life through personal computers and the internet. At the same time, political polarization deepened as Americans increasingly divided along ideological and cultural lines. American culture continued to change dramatically, moving from a more unified, traditional society toward one marked by diversity, technology, individualism, and fragmentation.
The period from 2000 to 2026 accelerated these trends. Smartphones, social media, and streaming platforms transformed communication, entertainment, and even identity formation.
Americans no longer share a common cultural experience to the extent they once had. Algorithms and online communities allowed people to live within highly customized information environments. This increased both personal freedom and social fragmentation. In my view, social media did not cause social polarization and politicization, but it certainly enabled these negative trends because social media allows people to put their unfiltered thoughts out there for global consumption without any governor or apparently without much second thought. Social media is a vast ocean of anger, frustration, angst, whining, hostility, and at times, hate.
Attitudes toward religion, gender identity, divorce, cohabitation, race, and sexuality also shifted significantly. Younger generations accepted same-sex marriage and broader LGBTQ identities, which grew rapidly. Discussions about race, immigration, nationalism, and historical memory became more intense and politically charged.
Economically, America became more knowledge- and technology-driven. Manufacturing declined while digital industries expanded. Remote work, artificial intelligence, and globalization changed how people work and interact.
In the 21st century, Muslim immigration to the United States has continued through family reunification, refugee resettlement, education, and employment opportunities. American Muslims come from many backgrounds, including the Middle East, South Asia, Africa, and increasingly from native-born converts. Compared to many European countries, Muslims in America have generally experienced higher levels of economic mobility, educational achievement, and civic participation.
Assimilation among Muslims in the United States has been mixed and varied. Many Muslim immigrants and their children have integrated into American society through schools, professional careers, business ownership, military service, and political involvement. English fluency, intergenerational adaptation, and participation in democratic institutions have helped immigrant Muslim communities become part of mainstream American life.
At the same time, some Muslims maintain strong cultural and religious separateness, especially in tightly connected immigrant communities—parallel societies. Distinct religious practices involving dress, gender roles, dietary laws, and views on sexuality can create tension with broader American social norms. In some cases, younger generations experience identity conflicts between traditional family expectations and modern American culture.
The terrorist attacks of September 11, 2001, deeply affected public perceptions of Islam and individual Muslims in America. Concerns about terrorism, radicalization, and national security increased scrutiny of Muslim communities, at times unfairly, and some Muslims faced discrimination and suspicion. Meanwhile, it is a truism that most American Muslims strongly reject extremism.
The growth of Islam in America, what some call Islamization or Islamification, presents broader questions about multiculturalism, assimilation, and national identity. Public discussions increasingly focus on whether America should emphasize cultural integration around shared civic values or encourage greater preservation of distinct cultural and religious identities. The problem with maintaining distinct identities is that this is the failed multicultural approach that has not worked in Europe and it tends to magnify the pluribus at the expense of the unum. Additional debates involve free speech, religious accommodation, women’s rights, education, and the role of religion in public life. These issues reflect larger cultural tensions within an increasingly diverse American society.
Despite these many social changes, thankfully, certain American themes remained constant that we can celebrate on Memorial Day: belief in freedom, opportunity, innovation, and individual rights. From 1960 to 2026, American culture evolved from a comparatively cohesive national culture into a far more diverse, connected, contested, and rapidly changing society.
The question Americans must consider and answer correctly in this 250th year is how do we maintain the best values and key ingredients preserving a free society even as we continue to grow, become more pluralistic, and experience social change?
I still believe America’s founding values—“We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness”—are essential, exceptional, and efficient for all.
Well, we’ll see you again soon. This podcast is about Discerning What Is Best.
If you find this thought-provoking and helpful, follow us on your favorite podcast platform. For more Christian commentary, see my website, r-e-x-m as in Martin, that’s rexmrogers.com, or check my YouTube channel @DrRexRogers.
And remember, it is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm.
© Rex M. Rogers – All Rights Reserved, 2026
*This podcast blog may be reproduced in whole or in part with a full attribution statement. Contact me or read more commentary on current issues and events at www.rexmrogers.com/ or my YouTube channel @DrRexRogers, or connect with me at www.linkedin.com/in/rexmrogers.